2000 married parents were surveyed and a third said they had too much to lose in divorcing now, and 18% had a date in mind to end their marriage.
With added pressure around Christmas with family all together and with New Year causing people to re-evaluate their lives, marriages and relationships are really tested and the strain can be felt by many.
This can be a horrible time for many people. Does this ring any bells with you?
Are you feeling unhappy, trapped and lost with your relationship?
1) Do you still want to make this work?
2) Is it time to leave?
The answer to these questions will send you down 2 different paths. However things will work out if you listen to your unconscious mind, your gut feeling. And remember the grass is not always greener on the other side, however you must go with your instincts to allow you to be your True Self, The Real You, in order to be happy and grow into the person you are meant to be.
See the following image for the 10 top reasons for staying in an unhappy marriage and the 10 things parents do to keep up appearances:
Interesting stats and if any of the above strike a chord and you want to make that change, I can help. Stop suffering in silence. You are strong enough to do the right thing for you, which in turn will be the right thing for everyone.
Happiness starts with YOU, so is it time to make that change and be the best you can be? I can help bring the spark back into your relationship if it is worth saving and I can also help you stay strong, confident and with clear clarity if it’s right for you to move forward on your own.
Life can be good again and you can change to achieve either path that’s right for you.
Wishing you Good luck, strength and joy this Christmas and a Happy Healthy New Year.