Commitment Issues/Relationship Counselling

There are many different reasons why a person may have trouble committing or even avoiding getting into a situation that may involve feelings being brought to the fore. The following case study, is a good example of someone being scared to get close to someone again after a divorce and the testimonial below also shows a client’s change of mindset after we worked together on his issues.

Case Study – Single guy (divorced) scared to commit and desperate not to have children

This lovely guy had been married (a very supportive husband who had to give, give and give to the relationship for one reason and another) but got to a point where their relationship needed to end as became too distant with each other.
He then had many short and/or complicated relationships where he avoided being with a woman who may want a child or even be of child bearing age and he would end the relationship to fit in with his beliefs and values.

However on working with the root causes for this, by releasing his negative emotions, he noticed that his values and beliefs were actiually inappropriate so we installed new positive beliefs and realigned his values to what he actually really wanted, which he was amazed about and ecstatic about the results…
He is now with a lovely girl who he is enjoying getting to know properly, and her children, and open to whatever this may bring, including the possiblility of more children if that develops. So proud of him and great to see his previous limiting beliefs that were once stopping him meet someone special, have totally gone and his new desired beliefs have given him what he wanted deep down.

So what do you really want in life and relationships and what is holding you back getting what you want?

Testimonials

“Through NLP Nicky has allowed me to realise my potential in life and open my mind to all possibilities. She completed my course in a detailed manner and helped me achieve clearly set goals in my personal life. After the course of therapy I had the clarity of mind to unlock a range of emotions and head into a whole new chapter of my life.”

Steve R, The Sands

I am based in Elstead which is within a 15 minute drive from Farnham, Godalming and Guildford in Surrey but I help clients from all over the world virtually.

Please get in touch if you would like us to chat about how I could help you.

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Nicky Anstey