Marriage & Couple Counselling / Relationship Counselling
It is impportan to remember that all couples have low times for one reason or another, but iif you feel there is more to this relationship and you want it to work I can certainly help put you back on track. The sooner you get in touch the quicker we can help you relight that spark you once had and learn to understand each other, release the negative emotions and beliefs you have effecting your behaviours and align your values so that you both have common drivers related to your relationship and marriage, i.e. you are motivated in the same way and with a unified goal.
Relationships Ending & Divorce
If you feel you are at the end of the line, remember divorce is costly and can be very emotional and upsetting due to the nature of the process and direct letters from solicitors, so you need to ask yourself could this realtionship still work? If so I can help you both think differently which will affect your behaviour in a positive way and reallign your values again to put your marriage and relationship back on track.
If however you know the marriage is over I can help you move forward with your life and regain the feeling of who you are and what you want in life, as well as removing any destructive emotions and limiting beliefs from this process to allow you to move forward in a healthy, open manner, as seen in the Divorced Case Study
Case Study - Married Couple with nuclear and extended family and baby on the way
Husband and wife got into a rut finding fault in the other and reacting poorly to one another. forming a bad habit almost. These arguments were seen by their children, which they hated doiing so blamed the other person, escalating the problem. They had worked very hard on their relationship for many years seeing many counsellors but found these traditional counselling methods (in the own words) "almost destroyed us, reaffirming and opening the emotional wounds every weekly session and leaving us to battle it out when we got home".
The way I deal with couples is very different as I work on what are the root causes behind these reactions, beliefs, values and emotions in the first sessions and then spend the rest of the time releasing these and installing whatever is needed to help you feel more confident, relaxed, informed about yourself and how to deal with the relationship as well as realigning your values in line with each other, whilst still mainting and enhancing what is important about yourselves.
This couple were amazing and have found a great way t work together as a team, communicate together and be empathetic to each others needs and their "values level thinking" (mode of how they think and percieve the world) adjusting the way they deal with that person in the best way for them. A real success, resulting in a calmer, loving couple and family unit.
You were both amazing - Thank you for being so open and hard woking!!!
This is a life changing experience for yourselves, your relationship and those close to you. Get in call now to discuss how I can help you on 01252 706995, or firstname.lastname@example.org
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